The Conscious Dating Virtual Coaching Program launched in late February and is designed to help singles focus on and find the partner of their dreams!
The Conscious Dating Virtual Coaching Program is an innovative approach to helping singles achieve their most important relationship goal – finding the love of their life and living the life they love. An online, self-paced, six-module program, it teaches singles what they need to know to be successful in dating.
“I think the Conscious Dating Virtual Coaching Program is the perfect way to learn about dating as well as tips and tools for meeting the love of your life. After completing the program, participants are ready to work with me directly on the details of their dating strategy. This online program gives them a solid foundation,” says Tara Kachaturoff, Chief Dating Strategist and a Master Certified Relationship Coach for Singles.
Here’s exactly what you can expect from the Conscious Dating Virtual Coaching Program:
This program is designed to help singles discover how to use Conscious Dating principles, strategies, tools and other insights to find the love of one’s life. Thru various assessment tools, checklists, workbooks and instructional audios, it offers the inspiration and direction to help one navigate dating with confidence.
More information at http://www.yourpersonaldatingcoach.com
Course Content and Format
This six-module online, self-paced course provides a solid foundation to help understand conscious dating principles as well as provides participants with tools and strategies to help them navigate their journey from being single to being a part of a couple.
The program is taught in a self-paced, online format so anyone can conveniently enjoy it in the privacy of their own home. It includes downloadable workbooks, instructional audios, and a Weekly Action planner.
It includes 6 modules: Adopt a New View of Dating; Discover the Relationship You Desire; Uncover What You Really Want in a Relationship, Embrace a Mindful Approach to Dating, Make Your Vision A Reality With Conscious Action, and Stay in the Game.
For more information: http://www.yourpersonaldatingcoach.com
About Tara Kachaturoff
Tara Kachaturoff is a Master Certified Coach for Singles personally trained by David Steele, CEO and Founder of the Relationship Coaching Institute (RCI). Since 2003, she has coached hundreds of single men and women to create better dating relationships thru her onsite and teleseminar courses. A staff member of RCI since 2004, Tara is the editor of Conscious Dating News for Singles as well as Partners in Life News for Couples, two publications with distribution to over 25,000 singles and couples around the world. She is also the author of Dating Success Secrets: 52 Tips for Finding a Great Date.
Online Dating: Where to Start
By · CommentsI want to give online dating a try. What tips can you suggest for someone completely new to this?
Rachel in Roanoke
Online dating is a fast, easy and convenient way of connecting with a potential mate! There’s simply no other way available where you can connect with so many people, in so little time, all in one place! To increase your success:
• Clarify your relationship requirements. What must you absolutely have (or not have) for you to be in a relationship? Include these in your narrative.
• Quickly sort thru replies and only spend time interacting with prospects who are highly aligned with who you’re looking for. Online dating can be time consuming; manage your time wisely.
• Trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, move on quickly. Whether it’s a photo, something in a posted profile, or a response they sent to you, don’t second guess your feelings.
• Be organized. Maintain a simple written record of people you interact with including contact details, characteristics that resonate with you, and other stand out attributes that make them memorable. This will be helpful as you interact with them both online, and possibly, in person.
And, most important, have a great attitude. Online dating can be fun. If it isn’t, try something else that resonates with who you are.
Tara Kachaturoff
I want what she has: What you can do to get it!
By · CommentsMy girlfriend has a fabulous marriage. She and her husband seem to be on the same wavelength about everything. They get along, share a lot of the same interests, do a lot of things together, etc. She tells me they have challenges just like any other couple, but they put their relationship as a top priority above all else. How can I create a great relationship with my partner — someone who doesn’t necessarily see it as a top priority? Where do I start and can I do things on my own that will make it great for both of us? Can you make a relationship great even if one of you is much more invested in it than the other?
Tonya in Terre Haute
Attracting what you want in your relationship starts with a vision. Picture in your mind what you really desire; feel the feelings you want to experience. Make sure you imagine yourself interacting and enjoying your relationship with your partner. Take it a step further and write your ideas on a piece of paper, focusing on all the things you want to see manifested for both of you. Consider creating a treasure map or vision board that includes pictures and other mementos so you can have a visual display to look at daily.
Start living into your vision by doing the things you want to experience in your own relationship. While not every relationship issue can be resolved by only one of you changing, it’s a great place to start. As Mahatma Gandhi said, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” It can start with you and just you. We learn and model our own behaviors and thoughts by the examples to which we’re exposed. It’s no different in our relationships. As you change, so will your partner.
Tara Kachaturoff
Goodbyes without the Grief
By · CommentsWhat’s the best way to tell someone that you want to break up? Sure, I’ve done this before, but I want to hear ideas from relationship coaches. I don’t want to hurt this person, but at the same time I don’t want to continue on because it would be sending the wrong signals. What’s the best way to have this conversation and what might I say?
Single men and women everywhere
Breaking up is hard to do. A subject of many a song, poem, book and conversation, it’s never easy to say goodbye. We all seek to be connected to others and anything that stands in the way or breaks connections can be emotional, stressful, and uncomfortable – no matter which end you’re on.
Acknowledge the good things about the relationship and then mention there isn’t a fit for what you’re looking for and that it’s time for both of you to move on to find more ideal partners. Remember, you can’t say “yes” to who and what you want in your life, without saying “no” along the way. Don’t text, email, or leave voice mail about breaking up. Always show respect by meeting in person, unless safety is an issue.
Dating forward: It’s important to set expectations when it comes to dating. Make sure you’re clear about who and what you’re looking for. Define your relationship requirements and screen potential matches for them early on. Be forthright and open in your intentions and expect the same in return. Showing the utmost respect and kindness lays a mutual foundation of understanding should you need to go your separate ways in the future.
Goal: Meet my mate by such and such date
By · CommentsGoal: Meet my mate by such and such date
I read all this stuff about the law of attraction and setting goals and focusing on what you really want. Can you use this to set goals when it comes to dating? How can I meet the love of my life in 90 days? Is it possible to set a goal for something that seems so … well … fate driven? How do you do this? (please read this question carefully – she’s asking HOW to do this)
Susan in Seattle
Tara responds …
I think it’s absolutely possible to meet someone in 90 days – however, it’s not guaranteed. First, you need a clear vision of exactly what you want. Who do you want to meet? What are their values and vision for their life? What about physical, mental and emotional attributes? You also need to define your relationship requirements – the absolute, unwavering “must-haves.” The clearer your expectations, the easier it will be to “attract” the right person to you.
The next step is to take action. You can’t attract anything without taking action on your part. Even a magnet can’t attract anything until it’s placed in the environment of something which possesses properties which happen to interact with the magnet. You need to do the same thing by “standing in the way” of opportunity. This means you need to be social, engage in activities where you will meet singles, let family and friends know about your goal and your relationship requirements. The more activities and people you engage around your goal, the easier it will be to attract the results you desire.
The secret in a nutshell: Know what you want and then consistently and relentlessly take focused actions to achieve your goal.