There’s nothing more off-putting and unattractive than a single man or woman who constantly complains about being single -- yet it is an almost surefire way to remain so.

It’s no one’s fault, not even yours, that you’re single. In fact, it’s not about fault, it’s about decision making. I believe that being single is a decision we make for ourselves – either consciously or subconsciously. Even if the decision is being made subconsciously, it’s still being made.

If you’re single and you don’t want to be, then you and you alone must make the decision to change that. There are almost 7 billion people in the world. There are over 40 million singles in the United States alone. Could it take a couple weeks, months, or even years for you to find the best mate for you? Yes, it could. But it might take less. The key to making any of this happen is getting out and meeting new people. Life takes effort. Life rewards action.

To Your Dating Success!

Tara Kachaturoff, Chief Dating Strategist